I know a well off couple, one in their late 80's and the other in their mid 90's. They have lived small frugal lives and have never travelled or really enjoyed any of their money. They have never used it to enrich their lives or the lived of their children in any material or non material way. It's like having a workshop full of tools and never using them to make anything.I'm not saying don't amass wealth and don't provide, I'm saying there are better ways of doing it than just in a will
They have 4 children. Two of them are now retired and the other two are passed the stage in their life where receiving a large amount of money would be transformative. The children will inherit a large amount of money, in excess of a half a million each, long after they actually need it. It strikes me as such a waste. It would have been far better if they had given their children far less money when they were buying a home or when they had young children etc. or they could have just spent it on themselves but to do nothing with it...