Ex won't give me more maintenance

[Purple]

Living with one's parent(s) is very different from sleeping in a doorway.

Absolutely. You do realise that the the 8,200 people who are regarded as homeless in this country are not sleeping in doorways, right?
Moving out of a family home and living with your friend/relative/parent does not mean that you have a home. It's certainly not what anyone aspired to.

 

[Purple]

It's his pension too unless you get a divorce / Judicial Separation.

Given his means there's a strong likelihood that it will still be his pension too after a divorce/ Judicial Separation.

 

[Thirsty]

Given his means there's a strong likelihood that it will still be his pension too after a divorce/ Judicial Separation.

Not necessarily - depends on the settlement terms.

 

[Purple]

Not necessarily - depends on the settlement terms.

Yes, I know it's not necessarily so, that's why I said "Given his means there's a strong likelihood that it will still be his pension too after a divorce/ Judicial Separation."