Bubbly Scot
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but now they have them , we're all supposed to love their children and usually put up their obnoxious behaviour.
It's not clear from my post, I do agree with you. I think a couple have every right to invite who they want to a wedding. In the same way, the invitee's can chose whether to attend or not.
I believe I handled the withdrawal of my children's invite in a dignified manner - "I'm not sure I would be comfortable leaving the girls alone for that length of time in a strange country....and I certainly don't want [my children] babysitting [the other children].......but you enjoy you're day, we'll be thinking of you" We are good friends, it wasn't a problem.
I think the people who strop and make a fuss tell us a bit about their children...and goes a little ways to explaining why they weren't invited to the wedding!