CN624 said:that they don't have a wedding list as they already have all the cutlery etc they need but that 'cold hard cash' will be fine!
CN624 said:My thoughts exactly. Not particularly close friends either so I've a funny feeling I've a prior arrangement on the day they are getting married...
Is this the notion of a wedding as a fundraiser? I've heard of people before inviting loads of people and/ or specific guests to increase the 'returns' from their investment. Economies of scale etc etc.
Or am I way too cynical for my age?
CN624 said:Not particularly close friends either so I've a funny feeling I've a prior arrangement on the day they are getting married...
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My policy would be to not attend a wedding that I could get out of. I'd reckon €150 (not cash) for close friend/relative, get out of any other wedding invite, and never attend an 'afters' unless I was at the main wedding.golden mean said:bskinti- I know of lots of people who would pay good money NOT to have to go to another wedding!
brodiebabe said:You'll still have to give a pressie tho!