Hi Puredrop
I sympathise with your situation, all you can do is your job and hope that she will get tired of being a b***h! She seems to be very childish. I have a similar problem but in this instance I am the office senior and a girl that I hired verbally abused me in front of our members in our office. - A relation of mine lives next door and was partying all night and she saw fit to come in and blow off to me - I was routed to the spot as was everyone else and I told her very calmly that I did not want to hear anymore. I stayed completely professional, spoke to her when I needed to etc. Again like your boss she has personal problems - guy who beats her up - and we get told lies after lies, one minute she is not with him and the next we hear that she is.
To cut a long story short, my boss asked me to meet with her, that the current situation was not working for her!, Told him I would - didn't actually know until after the meeting my boss told me that she told him that I was bullying her but she didn't mention this at the meeting. My boss kept asking her if there was anything else but she didn't say, I think she thought I wouldn't agree to the meeting! It was a tough decision for me but I am a professional and am here to work.
I have since heard from new employees that she has told them that she was bullyed by me - I have said this to my boss but he said that we have to allow for her cause she is MENTALLY UNSTABLE!!
Now I am managing fine, I only speak to her regarding work relating issues and nothing personal at all. She was told not to bring her personal issues into work but with new employees she is filling their head. I am just hoping that it is just a matter of time.
You have to remember that this is your job and it is her that has the issues not you. You are right not to bring anything to your boss just yet and you could end of looking like a trouble maker. So chin up and hopefully what goes around comes around. Take Care
I sympathise with your situation, all you can do is your job and hope that she will get tired of being a b***h! She seems to be very childish. I have a similar problem but in this instance I am the office senior and a girl that I hired verbally abused me in front of our members in our office. - A relation of mine lives next door and was partying all night and she saw fit to come in and blow off to me - I was routed to the spot as was everyone else and I told her very calmly that I did not want to hear anymore. I stayed completely professional, spoke to her when I needed to etc. Again like your boss she has personal problems - guy who beats her up - and we get told lies after lies, one minute she is not with him and the next we hear that she is.
To cut a long story short, my boss asked me to meet with her, that the current situation was not working for her!, Told him I would - didn't actually know until after the meeting my boss told me that she told him that I was bullying her but she didn't mention this at the meeting. My boss kept asking her if there was anything else but she didn't say, I think she thought I wouldn't agree to the meeting! It was a tough decision for me but I am a professional and am here to work.
I have since heard from new employees that she has told them that she was bullyed by me - I have said this to my boss but he said that we have to allow for her cause she is MENTALLY UNSTABLE!!
Now I am managing fine, I only speak to her regarding work relating issues and nothing personal at all. She was told not to bring her personal issues into work but with new employees she is filling their head. I am just hoping that it is just a matter of time.
You have to remember that this is your job and it is her that has the issues not you. You are right not to bring anything to your boss just yet and you could end of looking like a trouble maker. So chin up and hopefully what goes around comes around. Take Care