Hi there,
I have a brother who went back to collage a few years ago to do a particular Masters. I advised him that the November prior to finishing the masters 2 years ago - he needs to secure a job.
Since he qualified he has not worked (2 years now), he does want to work, he just finished one of those 9 mth internships for a company where you can work and get the dole. Mr. Bear and I have been very good to him, he lived with us during the internship, I helped him out a bit with money etc..
The problem is, when he isn't working he just smokes dope and plays games on his PC! He applies for jobs on line - and well nothing happening.
I know things are tough now, but I asked if he would go to different companies in person (there are about 3 -4 business parks near us), but he always has a reason why he wont/cant do something.
My brother is a good guy, but he has no responsibilities, and always has back up - ie ours or my mums!!!!
How do you help someone help themselves!
Cheers,
P..
I have a brother who went back to collage a few years ago to do a particular Masters. I advised him that the November prior to finishing the masters 2 years ago - he needs to secure a job.
Since he qualified he has not worked (2 years now), he does want to work, he just finished one of those 9 mth internships for a company where you can work and get the dole. Mr. Bear and I have been very good to him, he lived with us during the internship, I helped him out a bit with money etc..
The problem is, when he isn't working he just smokes dope and plays games on his PC! He applies for jobs on line - and well nothing happening.
I know things are tough now, but I asked if he would go to different companies in person (there are about 3 -4 business parks near us), but he always has a reason why he wont/cant do something.
My brother is a good guy, but he has no responsibilities, and always has back up - ie ours or my mums!!!!
How do you help someone help themselves!
Cheers,
P..