Did I not suggest it with retaining the oil boiler as a back up! (me thinks I did)
You most certainly did.
I just find that unless the house is extremely well insulated, in that it can be heated by a candle, a heat pump cannot keep up with the heat loss. Fitted to a standard average insulated house of say 75w/m
², it will not be able to keep up the losses. Remember, they are normally sized at circa 8kW, some 10 or 12. Getting into the 15kW range they are very expensive to run. A 10kW heat pump will have a 2.5kW motor, then when the 4kW element kicks in, it's now 6.5kW. Would you boil 3 kettles continuously for say 10 hours a day? (That's a modest consumption daily time)
When the outside ambient temperatures are warmer, then yes, it will not require the backup, but in winter, they are generally not and the back up will kick in a lot more than you think.
A 75w/m² heat loss property will require an input of approx 15kW + allowance for DWH. I understand that you do not have the rapid heat response requirement, but a radiator that is installed with a design average temperature of 60°C, now only getting 30°C (even on 10 hours/day), it will struggle to keep up with the loss of the room.
This is the what they are promoting; in that it can be retrofitted to heat radiators but I just don't buy it. I am open to be proven wrong, but it will have to be backed up with theory and calculations.
A good test would be to put an injection control valve set to 30°C to your flow pipe from an oil boiler and see if it will maintain the heat within the house. (You will also have to put a mixing valve between the flow and return before the ICV to protect the boiler).