advices please:
trying to deal with Ulster Bank - Ex. and myself have come to agreement that he will take over (as in get new I realize all of that) mortgage on our joint property - here's the problem. I currently live in the house with our daughter, but bank are asking that he live there and show that he has affordability to pay mortgage for 6 months before they give him a mortgage. This leaves me in a very uncertain position - which I have explained to branch advisor - to no avail. There will be nothing legal or in writing to confirm this - what happens in 6 months if he does not get approval then for some reason (they have checked he has affordability).
In my mind we are offering them a solution to a messy situation - I have questioned if he has affordability why do we need to wait 6 months and in reality they are asking me to vacate the family home ... and in 6 months if they did decide not to approve mortgage I would have moved, allowed ex. to move in and my name would still be on deeds....
any advices????? should I contact branch manager???
trying to deal with Ulster Bank - Ex. and myself have come to agreement that he will take over (as in get new I realize all of that) mortgage on our joint property - here's the problem. I currently live in the house with our daughter, but bank are asking that he live there and show that he has affordability to pay mortgage for 6 months before they give him a mortgage. This leaves me in a very uncertain position - which I have explained to branch advisor - to no avail. There will be nothing legal or in writing to confirm this - what happens in 6 months if he does not get approval then for some reason (they have checked he has affordability).
In my mind we are offering them a solution to a messy situation - I have questioned if he has affordability why do we need to wait 6 months and in reality they are asking me to vacate the family home ... and in 6 months if they did decide not to approve mortgage I would have moved, allowed ex. to move in and my name would still be on deeds....
any advices????? should I contact branch manager???