Get thermostatically controlled valves fitted to each radiator and simply turn down the ones in rooms that are not used to the minimum.
I would turn down the stat in the bedroom to no more than 15 (assuming that you don't want to go to the expense of the valves for the rads. The one in the living room could be turned down to 18 which should be comfortable if you have eliminated draughts.
Really the simplest solution would be to have the rad valves fitted so that you can set the temperature in each room individually. I have no idea how much they would cost over there (I live in England) but I am sure that the cost would be recovered very quickly.
I don't know about the stat in the hot water cylinder as we have a combi boiler which only heats the water as we need it; i.e. we have no how water cylinder.
I am sure that many poster will be able to provide more help.
Good luck in your new house.
BillK