Hear hear. Excellent post.The problem is figuring out how to change this dynamic. Magically creating an 'equal' society won't change things. I read the links that Complainer included and the drive seems to be for equalising income - either by having less difference at gross pay level or by taxing and redistributing so that net levels are less unequal. I don't think giving disinterested or abusive parents more money will make the slightest difference to their children's future. So what do you do to break the cycle? Direct provision of food instead of welfare? Remove all children from parents who don't know how or don't want to provide the opportunities to their children? It really is a vicious cycle - people need to be educated to know how to strive for the best for themselves and their children but if they don't know that, they won't push for their children to be educated... Equal opportunities ARE provided for children to access a good 14 year education - but it is the lack of interest/education of the parents that stops equal education being provided/accessed.
The problem is figuring out how to change this dynamic. Magically creating an 'equal' society won't change things. I read the links that Complainer included and the drive seems to be for equalising income - either by having less difference at gross pay level or by taxing and redistributing so that net levels are less unequal. I don't think giving disinterested or abusive parents more money will make the slightest difference to their children's future. So what do you do to break the cycle? Direct provision of food instead of welfare? Remove all children from parents who don't know how or don't want to provide the opportunities to their children? It really is a vicious cycle - people need to be educated to know how to strive for the best for themselves and their children but if they don't know that, they won't push for their children to be educated... Equal opportunities ARE provided for children to access a good 14 year education - but it is the lack of interest/education of the parents that stops equal education being provided/accessed.
Equality is a red herring. All a democratic society can offer is equality of opportunity. Unless one wants to go to North Korea, where people are equally miserable. There is always a tradeoff between equality and liberty. The balance is equality of opportunity. Society can do its part here, and Ireland has done a lot. Bad parenting has a lot to answer for though, and we need to ask the hard questions rather than running off blaming 'society' for the problems of individuals.
Who is blaming society?
Nobody said it was easy to break the cycle but lets not pretend that all children have the same opportunities in life just because they have access to an education system. They don't choose their parents or the life they are born into.
I have worked hard to earn myself a high salary and a good lifestyle that I feel that I deserve. I am not big headed enough to believe though that without the support and love given to me by my parents, I would be sitting here today. There are thousands of kids who cannot say that.
However, simply blaming the parents is also simplistic. Many of them were born into conditions similar to what their own kids are born into. Its a vicious cycle. I have no idea how we break that cycle but we should at least try instead of simply saying 'it the child is good enough, they will break it themselves'.
However, simply blaming the parents is also simplistic. Many of them were born into conditions similar to what their own kids are born into. Its a vicious cycle. I have no idea how we break that cycle but we should at least try instead of simply saying 'it the child is good enough, they will break it themselves'.
Indeed, we need to break this cycle. In fact, you are agreeing with my point in the statement above, in pointing out that the child is not to blame. We need to encourage and ensure good parenting, and discourage bad parenting. How do we do this? One thing is for certain - we've thrown a pile of money at it over the last 10 years, and things haven't gotten any better.
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