byrnekbyrne
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Hi all,
My situation is that my partner and myself are considering splitting up in the near future, we get on ok for now, things just not working any more and we are preparing for the inevitable split and the financial impact of this on all of us as we have a one year old daughter.
Current situation is as follows
We have been residing in my grandmothers home for the past year, I had an apartment which I sold and we moved into grannys home, granny not residing there and not charging rent we are acting as caretakers, I invested approx 30,000 to do home up, house in decent area in Dublin and close to creche for our daughter so nice area for a child. I will eventually inherit this house.
Neither of us have any other loans/mortgages,credit cards. I have savings of approx 35000, partner has approx 40000, she earns 45000 p/a, I earn 50,000 p/a
I am toying with different options of what is the best way to proceed, I’m leaning towards helping my partner get a mortgage on a house close to area we are in now, this would involve a joint mortgage application as she could not qualify on her own, partner and my daughter would then move into this home and i would stay where I am, I would be assisting financially through maintenance etc but partner confident she can meet repayments on her own and then at a later stage buy me out of home. Benefits of this are i’m close to our daughter and it doesn’t upset our lives too much, downside is i am jointly tied to a mortgage on house I’m not living in and down the line that could be a problem.
Second option which is less desirable is for partner to buy a home in her own name outside of dublin, but that would mean long commute and uprooting daughter, for that option I have no problem in gifting money to help with deposit but would mean a longer stint in our current situation together which would allow us to save more money but it’s difficult living under the same roof when not together.
Would be greatful for a fresh perspective on above and if there are other options/pitfalls I’m missing
Many thanks
My situation is that my partner and myself are considering splitting up in the near future, we get on ok for now, things just not working any more and we are preparing for the inevitable split and the financial impact of this on all of us as we have a one year old daughter.
Current situation is as follows
We have been residing in my grandmothers home for the past year, I had an apartment which I sold and we moved into grannys home, granny not residing there and not charging rent we are acting as caretakers, I invested approx 30,000 to do home up, house in decent area in Dublin and close to creche for our daughter so nice area for a child. I will eventually inherit this house.
Neither of us have any other loans/mortgages,credit cards. I have savings of approx 35000, partner has approx 40000, she earns 45000 p/a, I earn 50,000 p/a
I am toying with different options of what is the best way to proceed, I’m leaning towards helping my partner get a mortgage on a house close to area we are in now, this would involve a joint mortgage application as she could not qualify on her own, partner and my daughter would then move into this home and i would stay where I am, I would be assisting financially through maintenance etc but partner confident she can meet repayments on her own and then at a later stage buy me out of home. Benefits of this are i’m close to our daughter and it doesn’t upset our lives too much, downside is i am jointly tied to a mortgage on house I’m not living in and down the line that could be a problem.
Second option which is less desirable is for partner to buy a home in her own name outside of dublin, but that would mean long commute and uprooting daughter, for that option I have no problem in gifting money to help with deposit but would mean a longer stint in our current situation together which would allow us to save more money but it’s difficult living under the same roof when not together.
Would be greatful for a fresh perspective on above and if there are other options/pitfalls I’m missing
Many thanks