I think the Gardai would be sympathetic in your particular circumstances and might be willing to have a word
I think the Gardai would be sympathetic in your particular circumstances and might be willing to have a wordThey want to replace it with their own new fence. They are doing a very big job in their back garden and part of their front garden which they have their side but they have already used a digger in the front and enchroched over onto my side and have also damaged my side with the digger. It's a mess. It's a long story, last Sunday he approach me to say that he was knocking on my door all day on the previous Friday. I explained that I was in hospital with my dieing brother. He said that they were going to put their new fence against mine. I said fine as they already have a fence against my side on their side. The next evening his wife came over to say that they wanted to slot their fence into where the original fence is. There is nothing wrong with the fence that is there as we maintained and painted it every year.
I had just gotten bad news about my brother and I honestly wasn't thinking straight so I said ok to her. I ask her the next day if the new fence could be painted as it is not the usual type of fence and doesn't look to be as good quality. She said that I would have to be careful that it didn't go through to her side. They know that my husband isn't here at the moment and they asked if he was coming back and I without thinking said not for a while. My husband is in hospital but that's not any of their business.
They moved in from Lithuania 3 years ago.
Anyway he told me that he is going to remove the original fence and I said that he couldn't without my agreement and he said that he is going to anyway and that I could f**k off. So now I am in bits worrying about what to do when his work men go about taking the fence out tomorrow morning.
They are taking advantage of the fact that I am on my own. They wouldn't have spoken to me as they did if my husband were here. That's why they asked me if he was coming back.
Thank you.@Jobrien - from your own perspective, document everything up to now - take photos of the front & back etc, include timelines and as much info as you can in your notes.
Idealy, if you feeel up to it, talk to them again on this, but if you feel threatend or itimidated, etc, then just walk away and try not to get into a discussion / argument with them. It's a very stressful time on it's own, but with you brother's situation, we can only imagine how difficult this is
I did contact the Garda but they never came.I think the Gardai would be sympathetic in your particular circumstances and might be willing to have a word
Did you call directly to the station? Most of them have a community officer who are generally very understanding. They offer advice even if they can’t intervene directly.Thank you.
I did contact the Garda but they never came.
Except for that you are....
Me thinks you're barking up the wrong tree here if you think a judge is a banana short of a bunchOnly if you have the misfortune to encounter a judge with the IQ of a banana.
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