I want to rewrite my will. Since marriage, I have inherited and would like to make bequests to some of my extended family. Can I do this or does this money or any possible Lotto winnings become 'ours' as in self and husband. Or should my will be a list as 'wishes' to be respected at the discretion of my executor rather than directives that must be adhered to? Should wills of married couple mirror each other?