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Where do I start? Should be the season of good will - I should be relaxing watching the box and enjoying the glow of the lights from the tree but there's something bothering me......
My dog wondered into a neighbours garden - was coming back from his walk in a field at the back of the houses and must have spotted a cat a taken off and ended up in a neighbours back garden. According to my wife he was only there for a few seconds. When she caught up with the dog to put him on the lead the neighbour (X) charged out from her house and began shouting at my wife. My wife felt afraid and intimidated and embarrased so put her head down and walked off fast towards home. (I was on the street with a neigbour and we witnessed this incident.
Note: this was not the first time X had words with my wife - about two years ago my wife put one foot in her garden as she walked past her house and X can out shouting at her demanding that my wife gets off her property. Now X's daughter was forever spinning up and down the street and turning her little bike in our drive and fair play to her I would hate to see a child on the busy road that we live on.
About twenty mins after the incident X rang the bell very forcibly so I went out. She said that the dog did a poo in her garden and demanded very strongly / agressively that I clean it up... At this stage I chalenged her on her behaviour towards my wife and told her that I to leave my property. She threatened me with the litter warden and the dog warden. I told her to cop herself on and consider making a positive contribution to the area. I asked her would she pay the residents association contribution so we could enhance the area and deal with the litter in the area (She never answered the door when we called for the €20 sub and went on to encourage others not to contribute and also insinuated that we were pocketing money - We have all recepits etc. I also said that she should consider getting the dog warden for the house across from hers where there is a dog is not taken out for a walk and was constantly barking and keeping neighbours awake - her sisters house. She walked away and turned around and coldly said that this is not the last I would hear about this.....
She was right - about 15 mins later two Gardai were in my kitchen. I'm not sure what she said but one entered the house like a hill street blue on a mission. My wife and I explained our side and they simply advised us to keep away from her and if there was any more afters to simply call them.... Note I admitted that I had raised my voice and that the exchanges were 50/50. But there was no threats or anything like that. It was more like a heated exchange.
Monday morn Gardai at Xs house and also a call from mr. Dog Warden.
A neibhbour warned me to be careful with this individual... also others in the estate had some issues with X.
Any advice from a legal perspective...
Should I write up some notes and submit them to the Gardai who called
Should I contact a solicitor
Any thoughts would be most welcome....
Ps If the dog did a poo I would have happily cleaned it up if X had to have asked in a reasonable way at the time.
My dog wondered into a neighbours garden - was coming back from his walk in a field at the back of the houses and must have spotted a cat a taken off and ended up in a neighbours back garden. According to my wife he was only there for a few seconds. When she caught up with the dog to put him on the lead the neighbour (X) charged out from her house and began shouting at my wife. My wife felt afraid and intimidated and embarrased so put her head down and walked off fast towards home. (I was on the street with a neigbour and we witnessed this incident.
Note: this was not the first time X had words with my wife - about two years ago my wife put one foot in her garden as she walked past her house and X can out shouting at her demanding that my wife gets off her property. Now X's daughter was forever spinning up and down the street and turning her little bike in our drive and fair play to her I would hate to see a child on the busy road that we live on.
About twenty mins after the incident X rang the bell very forcibly so I went out. She said that the dog did a poo in her garden and demanded very strongly / agressively that I clean it up... At this stage I chalenged her on her behaviour towards my wife and told her that I to leave my property. She threatened me with the litter warden and the dog warden. I told her to cop herself on and consider making a positive contribution to the area. I asked her would she pay the residents association contribution so we could enhance the area and deal with the litter in the area (She never answered the door when we called for the €20 sub and went on to encourage others not to contribute and also insinuated that we were pocketing money - We have all recepits etc. I also said that she should consider getting the dog warden for the house across from hers where there is a dog is not taken out for a walk and was constantly barking and keeping neighbours awake - her sisters house. She walked away and turned around and coldly said that this is not the last I would hear about this.....
She was right - about 15 mins later two Gardai were in my kitchen. I'm not sure what she said but one entered the house like a hill street blue on a mission. My wife and I explained our side and they simply advised us to keep away from her and if there was any more afters to simply call them.... Note I admitted that I had raised my voice and that the exchanges were 50/50. But there was no threats or anything like that. It was more like a heated exchange.
Monday morn Gardai at Xs house and also a call from mr. Dog Warden.
A neibhbour warned me to be careful with this individual... also others in the estate had some issues with X.
Any advice from a legal perspective...
Should I write up some notes and submit them to the Gardai who called
Should I contact a solicitor
Any thoughts would be most welcome....
Ps If the dog did a poo I would have happily cleaned it up if X had to have asked in a reasonable way at the time.