I understand this all too well having been in the same situation very recently. The LC treadmill is not the be all end all it’s touted to be and in truth the current school system no longer works at ALL for certain kids.
Youthreach and NLN offer very reassuring more vocational pathways to third level with lots of individual support when/if she’s ready. Don’t let anyone shame you into thinking you made a mistake by focusing on her well-being for now. Been there too, and narrow-minded others who haven’t a notion second-guessing you makes it all that much harder. But rest assured there are lots of options, and wishing her and you all the best,