Divorced lady - 2 kids , divorced a number of years -
Appears that the divorce judgement has something along the lines of expenses must be " agreed" by both parties - in relation to the kids - 22 and 18.
22 year old in college - 18 year old just started.
I was of the opinion that with children in college up to the age of 23 must be provided for by the parent -
Do not have sight of the divorce decree -
The ex husband - puts every obstacle in the way - and has to be informed by the lady of expenses coming along - and after considerable - numerous , texting - he may eventually provide half of the funds for HIS children.
He does pay half the rent for the 22 year old and half the fees - not without considerable encouragement / all the time from the children's mother - this of course brings considerable stress as No contact would be preferred -
A recent example would be - a property came up for rent , in a college town , accommodation cannot be found for love nor money -there .
A large deposit was required in order to secure this property to accommodate the 18 year old- for the forthcoming academic year - property was held for 12 hours - then would go back on the rented market -
Mother texts the father - letting him know and seeking his agreement - message is delivered but not replied to - mother had to pay the deposit/ rent ,
In order to put a roof over her head - if his usual form is anything to go by , this will be a case of - I didn't agree therefore nothing to do with me - it's inhumane, and totally unfair - is there anything that can be done other than the hassle of trying to get back in to the court - get in the court list - go through all the emotion and upset again - in order to get this man to live up to his responsibilities, The mother lets a lots of bills go , dental etc - as it's such a rigmarole / hassle trying to get him to do what he should be doing for his kids
Thanks
Appears that the divorce judgement has something along the lines of expenses must be " agreed" by both parties - in relation to the kids - 22 and 18.
22 year old in college - 18 year old just started.
I was of the opinion that with children in college up to the age of 23 must be provided for by the parent -
Do not have sight of the divorce decree -
The ex husband - puts every obstacle in the way - and has to be informed by the lady of expenses coming along - and after considerable - numerous , texting - he may eventually provide half of the funds for HIS children.
He does pay half the rent for the 22 year old and half the fees - not without considerable encouragement / all the time from the children's mother - this of course brings considerable stress as No contact would be preferred -
A recent example would be - a property came up for rent , in a college town , accommodation cannot be found for love nor money -there .
A large deposit was required in order to secure this property to accommodate the 18 year old- for the forthcoming academic year - property was held for 12 hours - then would go back on the rented market -
Mother texts the father - letting him know and seeking his agreement - message is delivered but not replied to - mother had to pay the deposit/ rent ,
In order to put a roof over her head - if his usual form is anything to go by , this will be a case of - I didn't agree therefore nothing to do with me - it's inhumane, and totally unfair - is there anything that can be done other than the hassle of trying to get back in to the court - get in the court list - go through all the emotion and upset again - in order to get this man to live up to his responsibilities, The mother lets a lots of bills go , dental etc - as it's such a rigmarole / hassle trying to get him to do what he should be doing for his kids
Thanks