The decentralisation was voluntary - right? I didn't think anyone was forced into such a move.The problem is that as I have been decentralised I am living in another provance from all my friends and family. Anyone I know is atleast 3 hours drive away. We only moved house last November and dont know any neighbours or friends who we can ask to take the kids overnight. We cant afford to pay a professional. If we weren't decentralised we would have friends and family around.
To be honest, I think you are asking the wrong question. It is unusual to be offered overtime for travel in the public sector - the normal policy is time-in-lieu. I'm guessing that they may be offering you the overtime to try to sweeten the deal for you.Does anyone know if I HAVE TO work overtime, or is it voluntary?
I pay for the hotel babysitterHow can you bring the children on your training day?
I cant - he also works for same organisation - sometimes he is on the same training course other times he works shift work. He is based 2 hours drive away from childminder and none of his shifts allow him to drop off/ or collect the kids. Also, he has a company car which is not insured to carry the kids. I know nobody who can do the run with the kids as I am new to the area.you will have to ask the father of the children to take a day's holidays.
I agree - that's my problem, but the fact is that I HAVE to bring the kids and pay for a hotel babysitter anytime I travel with work. I am out of pocket and I know that is my problem, nor my query here. The nub of the situation here is that up until now I was able to travel with work by staying overnight before and/ or after my work or training. I am now being asked to travel the same day as the meeting or training. This means that I am being told to do 2-4 hours of travel, then a full 8 hour days work, then travel back another 2-4 hours. This is an arduous day for an adult and there are many single people here not happy with doing these hours. My kids cannot do a day like this - which I understand is just my tough. But, am I within my rights to say "no" to a day like this? Do I have to work these hours if asked? Normally, as RMelly puts it I say "yes sir, no sir 3 bags full sir" to everything that is asked. But I just cannot do a 12 to 20hour day with the kids in tow. Are employers using the recession to bully us into submission and scare us into working excessive hours to our personal limits and beyond our family's capabilities?baby sitting is not the employer's problem.
I pay for the hotel babysitter
I cant - he also works for same organisation - sometimes he is on the same training course other times he works shift work. He is based 2 hours drive away from childminder and none of his shifts allow him to drop off/ or collect the kids. Also, he has a company car which is not insured to carry the kids. I know nobody who can do the run with the kids as I am new to the area.
I agree - that's my problem, but the fact is that I HAVE to bring the kids and pay for a hotel babysitter anytime I travel with work. I am out of pocket and I know that is my problem, nor my query here. The nub of the situation here is that up until now I was able to travel with work by staying overnight before and/ or after my work or training. I am now being asked to travel the same day as the meeting or training. This means that I am being told to do 2-4 hours of travel, then a full 8 hour days work, then travel back another 2-4 hours. This is an arduous day for an adult and there are many single people here not happy with doing these hours. My kids cannot do a day like this - which I understand is just my tough. But, am I within my rights to say "no" to a day like this? Do I have to work these hours if asked? Normally, as RMelly puts it I say "yes sir, no sir 3 bags full sir" to everything that is asked. But I just cannot do a 12 to 20hour day with the kids in tow. Are employers using the recession to bully us into submission and scare us into working excessive hours to our personal limits and beyond our family's capabilities?
Scubachick I wouldn't be as harsh as this poster but myself & my wife both work & we have kids. I am self employed & my wife is an employee & we can appreciate where it may be difficult for you.................BUTScuba chick - Do your self a favour and sort out your child minding options!
You should have taken it into consideration when decentralising. Why should your employer have to make special arrangements for you ?
By djingo you guys would hate me if I was minister for finance- worried about overtime? You should be worried about keeping your job............maybe a dose of the private sector realities should be administered.
I cannot believe this post!
If I were you I'd stop coming in early, start taking my breaks, not work through lunch and not work late. No offense but maybe you're a 'soft touch', your manager might see you as malleable, susceptible to pressure. I don't believe that you have to work overtime. You should do what suits you. If it doesn't suit at a particular time then tell your manager calmly but firmly, 'Sorry but I'm not in a position to today'.I generally come in early, dont take breaks, work through lunch and stay late. I can hear you all now, "Boo-hoo, doesn't everyone do that". Yes, and that's my point - whether I am public, civil or private the query is the same. DO I HAVE TO WORK OVERTIME. Its not that I dont want to. I find it very difficult in my present personal circumstances to put in 12 hour days.
AFAIK the European Working Time Directive necessitates that one must have a minimum 11 hour rest period in every 24 hours.Scubachick said:But, am I within my rights to say "no" to a day like this? Do I have to work these hours if asked? Normally, as RMelly puts it I say "yes sir, no sir 3 bags full sir" to everything that is asked. But I just cannot do a 12 to 20hour day with the kids in tow.
As I've mentioned above, this is the wrong question to ask. Your contract says that you have to travel, so you have to travel. If you don't want overtime, they can give you time-in-lieu instead, but you still have to travel.DO I HAVE TO WORK OVERTIME. Its not that I dont want to. I find it very difficult in my present personal circumstances to put in 12 hour days.