12K ! and you are most definitely leaving, you can prove it and you're willing to settle.
Hello BOS, wake up.
Ireland1. For 12K and this messing around, forget about them. What absolute nonsense is this, you've are a good person, you're trying to settle with them, you are presumable forced to leave, and want to leave with a good financial sheet, and you get nowhere. Don't tell them where you are going. If they were willing to settle it would be different.