Headachecity
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Hi,
I was not sure how to title this as quite frankly it's a mess & sensitive. I have an uncle (in his 60's not married) who inherited my grandparents entire estate & farm in a lovely part of Mayo. For years my sister & her boyfriend are dropping hints for a site to build which gets embarressing put they persist, so this time they got their way. They have put in for planning permission to build there. I am furious, they are going to move from Dublin down there as her BF works in Sligo plus they just want a freebe & to take over the entire estate in a very sneaky way. There are 4 of us in line to inherit the place & the agreement always was that it stays in the family never to be sold. If those two get it all they will destroy what was built by my grandfather & his father & do the rest of us out of the place. They have been trying it for years.
I need to know can I legally challenge this and put a stop to the planning permission, my cousin & brother will support me except they would not be as vocal as me about it all but they don't want them to take over the place. There are alot of other issues at stake here that I won't go into, but in a word they do nothing for anyone & if they do the slightest thing it's in bright lights & the rest of us have to put up with it. They have one schoolgoing child & she doesn't work, my parents basically paid for their first house 2 years ago as they just seem to leech off our family. His side don't speak to him, even his own mother (a very rich woman) disowns him and that really annoys me that he is taking money & land from my family along with my sister & his family don't bother with them.
It's very sensitive, sick of my parents going along with them regardless, the usual threat is they keep their son away from his grandparents when they don't do what they want. I am married, have two kids, my husband would never behave like that & we have never got any financial handouts what so ever from them. The excuse with me is that I have a good job & god love my poor sister!!..could write a novel on it. I would never stop them seeing my kids & tbh they probably wouldn't care if I did stop all contact. I can see a major fallout here, nomatter how professional or legally correct I produce this they will support them and I for one will not let them take over that estate!.
Sorry for such a ramble but it's stressful to say the least & I am just wondering do I have a chance in stopping this??.
Thanks in advance!
I was not sure how to title this as quite frankly it's a mess & sensitive. I have an uncle (in his 60's not married) who inherited my grandparents entire estate & farm in a lovely part of Mayo. For years my sister & her boyfriend are dropping hints for a site to build which gets embarressing put they persist, so this time they got their way. They have put in for planning permission to build there. I am furious, they are going to move from Dublin down there as her BF works in Sligo plus they just want a freebe & to take over the entire estate in a very sneaky way. There are 4 of us in line to inherit the place & the agreement always was that it stays in the family never to be sold. If those two get it all they will destroy what was built by my grandfather & his father & do the rest of us out of the place. They have been trying it for years.
I need to know can I legally challenge this and put a stop to the planning permission, my cousin & brother will support me except they would not be as vocal as me about it all but they don't want them to take over the place. There are alot of other issues at stake here that I won't go into, but in a word they do nothing for anyone & if they do the slightest thing it's in bright lights & the rest of us have to put up with it. They have one schoolgoing child & she doesn't work, my parents basically paid for their first house 2 years ago as they just seem to leech off our family. His side don't speak to him, even his own mother (a very rich woman) disowns him and that really annoys me that he is taking money & land from my family along with my sister & his family don't bother with them.
It's very sensitive, sick of my parents going along with them regardless, the usual threat is they keep their son away from his grandparents when they don't do what they want. I am married, have two kids, my husband would never behave like that & we have never got any financial handouts what so ever from them. The excuse with me is that I have a good job & god love my poor sister!!..could write a novel on it. I would never stop them seeing my kids & tbh they probably wouldn't care if I did stop all contact. I can see a major fallout here, nomatter how professional or legally correct I produce this they will support them and I for one will not let them take over that estate!.
Sorry for such a ramble but it's stressful to say the least & I am just wondering do I have a chance in stopping this??.
Thanks in advance!