WaysnMeans
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Mother has just gone to a NH. We have applied for Fair Deal, but given her savings and house value it is probable that there will be no state aid, at least for 3 years. However, the FD cost is less than the private cost, so that is worth it.
Her will leaves her assets to be shared equally between her 4 children, and her savings could probably pay fees for 5 or 6 years.
Mother's income is low, so her capacity to get tax relief on the cost is negligible. I am a 40% tax payer and could afford to pay about 6 months of fees, at least for this year. I understand that Mother cannot recompense me for that cost because Revenue would treat that as her paying the fees. However, I am willing to wait until after she dies and the will is settled if my siblings agree now to each give me a quarter of what I paid after the tax refund.
One of my brothers believes that revenue would see that as a tax dodge so he is not willing to support the scheme.
Is he right? I would welcome informed views on this.
I realise that I there might be nothing in the estate if Mother survives a long time, and that there could be bad blood if an agreement to contribute to the cost was not honoured, no need to warn me of all those issues.
Her will leaves her assets to be shared equally between her 4 children, and her savings could probably pay fees for 5 or 6 years.
Mother's income is low, so her capacity to get tax relief on the cost is negligible. I am a 40% tax payer and could afford to pay about 6 months of fees, at least for this year. I understand that Mother cannot recompense me for that cost because Revenue would treat that as her paying the fees. However, I am willing to wait until after she dies and the will is settled if my siblings agree now to each give me a quarter of what I paid after the tax refund.
One of my brothers believes that revenue would see that as a tax dodge so he is not willing to support the scheme.
Is he right? I would welcome informed views on this.
I realise that I there might be nothing in the estate if Mother survives a long time, and that there could be bad blood if an agreement to contribute to the cost was not honoured, no need to warn me of all those issues.