We had budgeted for the wedding and budgeted for the deposit. And could afford both from our savings. Now the goalposts have moved. The wedding is already fairly simple by Irish standards.
Simple in money terms? 10K would be an achievement.
Not budgeting for that, and don't expect it at all.
Anyway, everything appears to have changed utterly in the last 24 hours and we might have a better solution, heres hoping.