Hi there,
Have just been through the planning process - hasn't been easy but we did get planning. Like yourself, last August we started off with planning meeting. The main criteria we had to follow was have lived within 5 miles of the land in question for quite some time - which we did. Prove a housing need or need for new house - we had a house which we build 15 years ago - my need to move for agricultural reasons, I did up a business plan which I was advised to do. We submitted plans for new eco house, business plan, letters outlinging need for new house, why we need the land for our childern in the future, need to stay in the area for schools, family etc. We also had to get a councillor to help along. Submitted in January this year, got full planning last week, thank God. I wish you the best but get councillor and be honest also be very definite about your "need".