Hi,
I'm very sorry you find yourself in your situation. I would say this is not a money problem but a relationship problem. You have joint finances with him, but he does not have joint finances with you. And he knew perfectly well why he was getting the 8K limit on the CC.
From what you say, he's putting his hobby above the financial stability of his family.
If he is refusing to attend counseling to try to save the marriage, what else is left to try?
Maybe others with more experience in such cases can offer some advice
I'm very sorry you find yourself in your situation. I would say this is not a money problem but a relationship problem. You have joint finances with him, but he does not have joint finances with you. And he knew perfectly well why he was getting the 8K limit on the CC.
From what you say, he's putting his hobby above the financial stability of his family.
If he is refusing to attend counseling to try to save the marriage, what else is left to try?
Maybe others with more experience in such cases can offer some advice