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Jilted_john
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Hi ,
I recently bought a house with my EX girlfriend . After being in the house for 6 months the relationship broke down. After trying everything i could to get back and make the relationship work etc she reveiled that she didnt love me any more and would never want to go back. She didnt want to give it anthother go even though we had been going out for 7 years and had lived together for 4. I was willing to marry her and have kids and never cheated etc etc,
My ex wants to take over mortgage stay in house and get lodgers in to cover my half. Her parents have gone gaurentor and bank has approved their application . I am about 2 weeks away from signing off on the house and am having second toughts. The whole process took a little over 3 months but in that time I was not really in the correct frame off mind to deal with this logically and was happy to get out of the situation not being in debt,
I am just wondering if I am doing whats best. We got the house for 300,000 and its a three bedroom semi . If we sold right now we would most likely be in negative equity . I moved back to my parents house over xmas and am feeling a bit resentful that she has oppertunity to keep the house. They have agreed to 'buy me out' but I am just getting back the money my parents chipped in which I have since found out was basically my dads pension so not in a postition to buy a place of my own and am really walking away with nothing after spending a year looking for places and doing diy on the new house.
Would it be worth renting the house and waiting till the market picks up and then selling?
Any advice would be appriciated.
I recently bought a house with my EX girlfriend . After being in the house for 6 months the relationship broke down. After trying everything i could to get back and make the relationship work etc she reveiled that she didnt love me any more and would never want to go back. She didnt want to give it anthother go even though we had been going out for 7 years and had lived together for 4. I was willing to marry her and have kids and never cheated etc etc,
My ex wants to take over mortgage stay in house and get lodgers in to cover my half. Her parents have gone gaurentor and bank has approved their application . I am about 2 weeks away from signing off on the house and am having second toughts. The whole process took a little over 3 months but in that time I was not really in the correct frame off mind to deal with this logically and was happy to get out of the situation not being in debt,
I am just wondering if I am doing whats best. We got the house for 300,000 and its a three bedroom semi . If we sold right now we would most likely be in negative equity . I moved back to my parents house over xmas and am feeling a bit resentful that she has oppertunity to keep the house. They have agreed to 'buy me out' but I am just getting back the money my parents chipped in which I have since found out was basically my dads pension so not in a postition to buy a place of my own and am really walking away with nothing after spending a year looking for places and doing diy on the new house.
Would it be worth renting the house and waiting till the market picks up and then selling?
Any advice would be appriciated.