Asking for a friend.- He was in the Circuit Court this year; The Judge increased the monthly payment by 20% - despite him having less money now as he and his new partner have a new baby. The order also included a secondary element to include separate payments for Education costs and medical costs- he has to pay 3/4 she has to pay 1/4 - she recently invoiced him for the child's socks and underpants - saying they are an education costs as the child wears them to school. In the same week his ex also announced she was taking their child to Disneyland with a few other mothers!! He has little left by way of savings to pay a solicitor now, as circuit court cost him several thousand. The ex and he earn pretty much the same salary....another friend has said to him - those items are not uniform - don't pay it and toughen up basically. Thoughts welcome.
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