The kid across the street uses our gates as a goalpost. This drives my wife mad and she has told him time and again not to do so. He is 15 and before him his older brother did the same but he at least stopped when my wife went out one day and screamed at him. Today my wife went out in the car and saw the kid and mate in his garden and when she returned he was at our gate kicking ball across to his mate. She lost it and almost pinned him to the garden wall, she made a show of herselve and when I got home she was so upset at the way she had swore at him. We got a new porch unit recently and the football slams into it all the time. Any advice please?