Good afternoon all
Hopefully someone can give me some advice on this matter.
I am seperated from my Wife, we have 2 children and a mortgage, we split up because we couldnt get on.
I have been the sole earner and provided a 5 bedroom house for ten years, when we split I refused to leave the family home, as i wanted to be close to my children and for financhial reasons, and converted a section of the house (seperate living quarters etc).
But she wasnt having any of this, as she started a relationship with a 3rd party. She went to the guards and made a bogus complaint of domestic violence (this was completely untrue) she was granted an intruim barring order which allowed me to stay at the house.
She then made another bogus claim, this time she alledged it was mental abuse (again completly untrue) so i was arrested, brought to court, relased and was given 15 minutes to collect me personal bellongings from the home. She was granted a barring order so as i could not enter the home.
The barring order is up this month and i wanted to know what is the correct procedure to collect my things. Basicially i had time to collect my clothes and cds and nothing else. All my tools, family er-looms possessions i had gathered before and during the marraige. The house is state of the art, she has everything and i have nothing. after a year staying at my mothers house i have just moved into a one bedroom apartment and cant afford the necessities eg tv , stereo, there are 4 tvs in the family home 5 stereos. my computer, my photos, Can i go in when the order is up? do i inform the local guards, any advice would be gratefully appreciated.
The house is a joint mortgage between me and my ex.
Hopefully someone can give me some advice on this matter.
I am seperated from my Wife, we have 2 children and a mortgage, we split up because we couldnt get on.
I have been the sole earner and provided a 5 bedroom house for ten years, when we split I refused to leave the family home, as i wanted to be close to my children and for financhial reasons, and converted a section of the house (seperate living quarters etc).
But she wasnt having any of this, as she started a relationship with a 3rd party. She went to the guards and made a bogus complaint of domestic violence (this was completely untrue) she was granted an intruim barring order which allowed me to stay at the house.
She then made another bogus claim, this time she alledged it was mental abuse (again completly untrue) so i was arrested, brought to court, relased and was given 15 minutes to collect me personal bellongings from the home. She was granted a barring order so as i could not enter the home.
The barring order is up this month and i wanted to know what is the correct procedure to collect my things. Basicially i had time to collect my clothes and cds and nothing else. All my tools, family er-looms possessions i had gathered before and during the marraige. The house is state of the art, she has everything and i have nothing. after a year staying at my mothers house i have just moved into a one bedroom apartment and cant afford the necessities eg tv , stereo, there are 4 tvs in the family home 5 stereos. my computer, my photos, Can i go in when the order is up? do i inform the local guards, any advice would be gratefully appreciated.
The house is a joint mortgage between me and my ex.