Elderly mother of 94 presently living in a nursing home and refusing to meet us anywhere near half way on what is going to happen to her house. She is paying huge money monthly as she was entitled to very little on fair deals scheme because she has a large house. Her pensions are going into her bank but these will only sustain her for a certain amount of time and as an only child i feel very stressed as she has flatly refused to sell her house or rent it. Enduring POA is presently going through so I will then be able to make decisions but I was hoping that she would at least give me the go ahead rather than making me feel like the worst daughter possible. I have tried everything over the years but she refused all kinds of help and took no advice from anyone. Next year we will either have to sell or rent the house and I was wondering if its easy to rent an old house needing work done to it in the current market. We just want to have enough to maintain the gardens, hedges etc because presently we are paying bills for 2 houses and its costing us so much. Any advice appreciated. Discussing this with her is out of the question as its her way or no way and she never considers the others persons situation.