As I said I am shocked at responses/interest.
I am only curious.
I have forgotten/forgiven whatever. I am in no ways, upset, annoyed etc now over what happened, I was just a little peeved!
If I was awfully interested in that aspect(LAW) i would have posted this in the Ask about law section but I am not, I am curious about what is over the line what isn't.
I do think it is interesting though to see all the sides of the issue, which is the only reason I posted this!
he asked you if you wanted a drink
Where did I say this?
He came over seen I wasn't drinking and just asked me straight out (in front of many) if I was pregnant! No small talk there! I would be out not drinking more than I drink and he knows this! I just found it so strange as I see him out reguarily and then he pipes up with this!
If he was offering to buy I wouldn't have asked him for a ballygowan!
It would have been something stronger and then the world would end!
Footsteps, ask yourself this. If you told your boss (at work or otherwise) that you were pregnant and he told you he was delighted for you, would you be checking your legal rights?
And another question. If you had no intentions of taking things further, why are you even checking your rights? By the way, my wife wasn't drinking one night. Friends asked "Are you pregnant?". She said yes and they WERE delighted.
It is not that I am checking my legal rights, I am curious surely this is allowed, I found it strange wanted to hear what others think, that is it.
We live in a society in which people sue for everything and I hate it, so I am interested to see that some people actually would over something as simply as this (even if I do think it is none of his bees wax)