happymumof2
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Hello,
can someone give an advice please? How can I claim my home rights for husband's property in Ireland without using a solicitor?
I just do not have money at all, I am not in Ireland and not Irish.
Briefly about our situation.
We are married 4 years+, have 2 small children born in our marriage. Mu husband is British and I moved to the UK to be with him.
We lived together in the UK, both did not work, I was taking care of children, house etc and helping my husband to manage his rental income.
He owned 3 properties and some land. So rental income was enough for living. Recently he sold two properties in the UK, and bought one in Ireland with no mortgage needed. He still has around 200k euros left in bank + one more property in the UK with tenants. Most of his assets around 700k euros were earned before marriage and inherited. During marriage he was saving about 1000 euros a month, so there was a little bit of increase during marriage as well.
We left the UK last year and spent 6 months together in my home country, then he decided to leave and now he lives in Ireland on his own.
The marriage was not straightforward with abusive behavior being in place. He was keeping me very tight on finances so I have 0 on my bank accounts and he only send 25 euros a week in total for all three of us. As we were changing locations it takes time for me to get spaces in nurseries for kids, need to do some paperwork because foreign birth certificate, also there is a waiting list to get a space. So basically I can not work now as I am a full time carer of 2 young children.
My work before marriage was very time consuming and required about 50 hours a week so I need to find a new direction and that will take time to stand on my feet again.
My husbands thinking and position do not make any sense. He states I can work and leave kids with my mother, but in reality she can not cope even with one child, I can only count on her help randomly but not on a full time basis and not even 20 hours a week.
I asked my husband for 1100 euros a month maintenance for all of us and 25k euros from his 700k assets. as a settlement but he refused saying all his assets are private and he pays a fair maintenance which you can live on (not really on 25 euros a week).
Now I noticed he put all his houses for sale, the last UK one which has been giving a stable income and no problem tenants living in it. And he also tries to sell his Irish property. Looks like he wants to be somewhere where I can not find him to apply to court.
can someone give an advice please? How can I claim my home rights for husband's property in Ireland without using a solicitor?
I just do not have money at all, I am not in Ireland and not Irish.
Briefly about our situation.
We are married 4 years+, have 2 small children born in our marriage. Mu husband is British and I moved to the UK to be with him.
We lived together in the UK, both did not work, I was taking care of children, house etc and helping my husband to manage his rental income.
He owned 3 properties and some land. So rental income was enough for living. Recently he sold two properties in the UK, and bought one in Ireland with no mortgage needed. He still has around 200k euros left in bank + one more property in the UK with tenants. Most of his assets around 700k euros were earned before marriage and inherited. During marriage he was saving about 1000 euros a month, so there was a little bit of increase during marriage as well.
We left the UK last year and spent 6 months together in my home country, then he decided to leave and now he lives in Ireland on his own.
The marriage was not straightforward with abusive behavior being in place. He was keeping me very tight on finances so I have 0 on my bank accounts and he only send 25 euros a week in total for all three of us. As we were changing locations it takes time for me to get spaces in nurseries for kids, need to do some paperwork because foreign birth certificate, also there is a waiting list to get a space. So basically I can not work now as I am a full time carer of 2 young children.
My work before marriage was very time consuming and required about 50 hours a week so I need to find a new direction and that will take time to stand on my feet again.
My husbands thinking and position do not make any sense. He states I can work and leave kids with my mother, but in reality she can not cope even with one child, I can only count on her help randomly but not on a full time basis and not even 20 hours a week.
I asked my husband for 1100 euros a month maintenance for all of us and 25k euros from his 700k assets. as a settlement but he refused saying all his assets are private and he pays a fair maintenance which you can live on (not really on 25 euros a week).
Now I noticed he put all his houses for sale, the last UK one which has been giving a stable income and no problem tenants living in it. And he also tries to sell his Irish property. Looks like he wants to be somewhere where I can not find him to apply to court.