I swear Im not stalking you!!!!!!!!!! We just seem to be on the same wave lenght at the moment!!
Im not sure about wine/plum and red together? Think it might clash a bit, Id stick to the one shade if I were you, just my personal opinion though.
I bought red coloured curtains for one of my bedrooms, and will have plain white bedclothes and white cushions that have a small red design on them just to tone in with the curtains. Im not planning on introducing any more red into the room, I think it might be too much. Im no interior designer! but sometimes I think less is more!