Also I CAN'T move, I have young children, a home, mortgage etc. I had hoped I would be happy here I am worried that things will get worse for me. I certainly do not want to report anyone or cause trouble I was just hoping someone might have suggestions, that perhaps they have been in a similar situation.Wouldn't suggest going to HR unless you have clear evidence of bullying, and even then, I wouldn't.
Important to differentiate between somebody being "negative" and "highly strung" and bullying also
If you won't move location to some extent you can't really complain imo. If it was bad enough, then you would move anywhere, I speak from experience