Hi guys,
I am looking for some advice.
I was working full time (on the books) in a restaurant in Dublin City Centre until Wed night.
The boss - owner/manager caused me to walk out as I could not work for him any longer.
Not only was he sexually harassing me - making lewd comments, inappropriate suggestions, touching my hand, back etc; at every opportunity. When I asked him to stop he started to bully me - there was a dramatic change in his attitude towards me, he started making comments about me to and infront of other staff, he began confronting me about every little thing I did and humiliated me in front of customers. He made my life unbearable.
On Wed night after I left work he sent me a text message saying something along the lines of -
"Carina if the kitchen not happy wit you tomorrow nothing I can do for you?"
I called him immediately and said that he had sent me a message but that I didn't understand what he was trying to say. He was very flustered, he began by asking me what the message said and then said that the kitchen said that when I work it is very slow and I am always tired!!
I said that it was he who had a problem with me after I stood up to him. He said I was mad and that he was the only one who didn't have a problem with me but everyone else in the restaurant did - I spoke to one of the girls yesterday and she was disgusted as she said that she never heard anyone say a bad work against me (I have a lot of experience)
After a very heated discussion I said that I would be in on Fri (tonight) to collect my wages as he has made it impossible for me to continue working there. He demanded that I come in on Thursday, I said no.
I am now unemployed for the first time in my life. I don't even know if I'm entitled to the dole while I look for a new job.
Any advice would be much appreciated.
Carina