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Hello
I would really appreciate some advice.
My husband and I have a mortgage of 540k. We are in arrears of 3k. House worth 290K now. We are currently on our 3rd temporary arrangement (which we have always adhered to). The mortgage is with Ulster Bank, fixed interest rate 4.95%.
The repayments each month are €2,500. We have 37 years remaining on a 40 year mortgage term. Our TRS will finish this year and we come off the fixed interest rate this year (further increasing the repayments) We also have a credit union loan €6k and credit card bill of 3k and over draft of €8k. Combined income is 70k.
I am self employed. Income has reduced by 60%. Husband is in employment. We cannot and will not ever be able to meet the mortgage repayments. We now have 3 children (triplets) so I cannot actually afford to go back into full time employment (it would cost €1,850 to have the minded). We live in the country (Carlow) so we both commute to Dublin. Both our jobs require that we have our own transport. We sold one car but cannot sell the other as we need it. It is a 2003 so the tax is high. Fuel costs, maintenance etc is high - but we need a car for work. We use public transport when we can. The cost of actually going to work is disproportionately high but we cannot give up work or find a job in Carlow/locally.
My question is what do we do? The mortgage is unsustainable. I know an option is to go to the UK and declare ourselves bankrupt. I also know that the Personal Insolvency route will be available mid year - but what realistically will they do for someone like us??
My husband is of the view that I am on drugs to think that the bank will ever write off a portion of the debt for us as we have earning potential (i.e, I will return to full time employment in a number of years and my husband is a professional in employment earning). I dont want to be at the mercy of the mortgage debt for the rest of our lives. We cannot even afford a pair of shoes at the moment. I have cut all unnecessary costs etc. Renegotiated loans with credit card co, credit union etc). The house has a lowest energy rating so costly to run too. I did love it but after 4 years of worry, love does not come into it anymore.
It wont sell - we have it listed since 2009.
So we cant sell the house - no one wants it, the car - we need it, plus we would only get 3k for it and then have no way of getting to work. We have no saving, assets etc.
I know we were idiots.
Many thanks for your time.
Hello
I would really appreciate some advice.
My husband and I have a mortgage of 540k. We are in arrears of 3k. House worth 290K now. We are currently on our 3rd temporary arrangement (which we have always adhered to). The mortgage is with Ulster Bank, fixed interest rate 4.95%.
The repayments each month are €2,500. We have 37 years remaining on a 40 year mortgage term. Our TRS will finish this year and we come off the fixed interest rate this year (further increasing the repayments) We also have a credit union loan €6k and credit card bill of 3k and over draft of €8k. Combined income is 70k.
I am self employed. Income has reduced by 60%. Husband is in employment. We cannot and will not ever be able to meet the mortgage repayments. We now have 3 children (triplets) so I cannot actually afford to go back into full time employment (it would cost €1,850 to have the minded). We live in the country (Carlow) so we both commute to Dublin. Both our jobs require that we have our own transport. We sold one car but cannot sell the other as we need it. It is a 2003 so the tax is high. Fuel costs, maintenance etc is high - but we need a car for work. We use public transport when we can. The cost of actually going to work is disproportionately high but we cannot give up work or find a job in Carlow/locally.
My question is what do we do? The mortgage is unsustainable. I know an option is to go to the UK and declare ourselves bankrupt. I also know that the Personal Insolvency route will be available mid year - but what realistically will they do for someone like us??
My husband is of the view that I am on drugs to think that the bank will ever write off a portion of the debt for us as we have earning potential (i.e, I will return to full time employment in a number of years and my husband is a professional in employment earning). I dont want to be at the mercy of the mortgage debt for the rest of our lives. We cannot even afford a pair of shoes at the moment. I have cut all unnecessary costs etc. Renegotiated loans with credit card co, credit union etc). The house has a lowest energy rating so costly to run too. I did love it but after 4 years of worry, love does not come into it anymore.
It wont sell - we have it listed since 2009.
So we cant sell the house - no one wants it, the car - we need it, plus we would only get 3k for it and then have no way of getting to work. We have no saving, assets etc.
I know we were idiots.
Many thanks for your time.