Hi
What do you mean by this
>>I just feel that his pre-tax savings and contributions are giving him a HUGE upper hand.<<
So could you adjust your Nett to be Nett post salary and then re-jig the % to make it fairer for you since both your Netts are not like with like (his is post pension and yours is pre pension)?
I know it's coming across as though I'm "just being selfish" - I can't seem to explain my way out of it, so maybe that really is what it is and I need to get over it (???).
@Danielle24, this is a new arrangement. Previously I earned 6 times his salary (and we did split the income 50:50 then, I might add!), and have been forced to downgrade. I have 2 degrees, 2 postgrads and a masters, along with many other accredited certificates, and a pilot's licence. It's not currently a viable option to improve my income. I think we're at this stage (ie: 66:33) because we've earning significantly less than we used to, and he's used to having lots of his income left over.
Well done on being so well educated Variety and pay no attention to this comment!2 degrees and 3 postgrads basically? maybe spend less time in college and more time gaining valuable experience to improve your salary
when you were the bread winner you shared the money 50/50. His unwillingness to return the favour makes him selfish.
Previously I earned 6 times his salary (and we did split the income 50:50 then, I might add!),
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