Brendan Burgess
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Very good points Jim. I was a little concerned for that poster yesterday evening.Very disappointed in you Brendan, felt like you encouraged this. I was always told if you have nothing good to say, say nothing. You have very good work done for a lot of people Brendan, perhaps if you reach out to this poster privately you might redeem your behaviour.There was one post yesterday
Walked out (emigrated) on joint mortgage in 2014, coming into inheritance soon
which I felt was met with Trumpian Brutality by some other posters.
As LS400 stated in one replying post:
"He may not have handled the situation correctly, but we haven't lived his life these last number of years, and so we don't have the right to slaughter him out. Some of the attacking posts are absolutely disgraceful.
The original poster concerned might have been literally heart broken when his relationship broke up, it might have been the joint owner who had an affair with someone else, he could have hit the bottle, he might still be on anti-depressants etc He might currently have a child with special needs and requires a stable home etc.
Posters should be aware that people are reluctant to provide full details of their circumstances for fear of being identified, and thus they should not be judged as we do not have the full facts.
Posters should be aware that some people seeking help here may be highly stressed, and, in some cases, possibly suicidal. Attacking such posters with Trumpian Brutality is simply unjustified, and the Moderators should immediately remove offensive posts.
AAM has a good reputation for helping people. It should not become a "hate" forum for people to vent their anger and spleen. If it does become that type of forum then it should change its name to "Ask About Malice".
Jim Stafford
should they be told the best way to use the court system to delay and frustrate the creditor. In my opinion yes,
While I agree with this, the reality is that some people are better informed on the entirely legal ways to avoid debts and frustrate creditors than others. I think AAM should make information available equally to all.I don't agree at all.
People should pay their debts if they can.
If they can't pay their debts, they should engage with the lender and their joint borrowers.
If they don't pay their debts, the rest of us do.
Brendan
This is a very one-sided and skewed way of looking at things. What about the creditors? Some creditors are small businesses who rely on cashflow and under your approach you would have them left unpaid, frustrated by debtors playing around with the legal system.delay and frustrate the creditor.
Very well put!AAM should not become a rogues’ refuge for those seeking way to avoid their responsibilities.
This paragraph particularly concerned me. Frustrating a creditor is affecting workers wages. We are all required to adhere to some norms in society and paying your debts is one of them. If people genuinely cant then that's fair enough. Some people fall on hard times etc.Where a poster is looking at payment demands on debt, should they be told the best way to use the court system to delay and frustrate the creditor. In my opinion yes, many people know how to do this, many others do not realise how lenient a court may be in terms of an installment order tec.
It’s a really interesting point.Where does this moral rectitude leave threads such as "Strategic Transfer of Pensions Overseas" ?
not relying on good will to pay debts or Brendan’s moderation skills in keeping knowledge of the loopholes out of sight.
Tax evasion is deliberate illegal behaviour.
Tax avoidance is planning where there’s a tax motivation against the spirit of the legislation.
Bona fide tax planning is availing of a relief, exemption, or provision that is specifically legal and not “contrary to the intention of parliament”. Pension transfers to somewhere like Malta are in line with the concept of free movement of capital as set out in the Treaty of Rome and agreed by European nations.
As an aside, there is also a certain poster who seems to like randomly seizing upon posts with an antagonistic feminist agenda, which usually goes unchecked or is upheld by the moderators
Yes I use that one a lot nowI've just discovered that there's an "Ignore User" option available on AAM. That could be used by sensitive readers who find some comments hurtful.
Then a person comes on here, enquiring as to how he can minimise his liabilities and the very same forum,
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