Hi RMelly,
I also got NTL Digital when I moved into my apartment so can answer a few of your questions
If an apartment is cabled for NTL does this mean I can get NTL digital? (Doesn't have an active connection).
Yes
Is it delivered by cable or do I need a dish or anything?
You get an NTL Digital box, a little smaller than a DVD Player, mine is just under the telly, with the DVD player if that gives you an idea of size.
Do I need a phone line?
No
The apartment has 2 or 3 NTL sockets. I only want to make use of 1 of them - can I just get one hooked up with digital and not worry about being charged for the other socket(s) not in use.
Thats what I did, didn't go for the multi - room viewing.
Not sure about the recording, something I don't do much of & whatever I missed is also on another channel e.g Channel 4 +1 or whatever ( hour later).
I did cancel the NTL digital because I just wasn't watching it that much, all the programmes I like are on the main 5, RTE,BBC,UTV and channel 4. Though one thing I miss is paramount comedy and the weekends dedicated to the likes of Fraiser, if you are having chilling out weekend or sick maybe.