unless you are have an above average understanding of plumbing I would advice agaisnt doing it yourself.
A solid fuel stove has no safety shut down if something goes wrong EG pump failure or power cut. If for any reason the pump stops pumping hot water out of boiler, the water in the boiler boils and creates steam and lots of pressure resulting in stress on pipework and boiler and maybe a very big bang.
For this reason you should run 1" flow and return from stove to cylinder or heat dump. This will allow natural circulation(no need for pump) if piped right. the flow and return must be unobstructed, I.E no valves between stove and heat dump. You tee off this main lines for your radiator circuit.
At the cylinder you should have a thermostat on the flow, when it reaches the required temp, the thermostat sends power to the pump that is fitted on radiator system and hot water is circulated to rads.
If power cut etc, the stove will still circulate to cylinder hence.
A 3 bar pressure relief valve should be fitted on the flow of stove as close as is practical.
Best to do your homework as it is vital to position expansion pipe and cold feed on system correctly.
If in doubt, pay a pro to do it for you as things may go bad if you get it wrong.