I can't help with all of your query, but i know you can get someone to help with moving the tank.
If there's oil in the tank you will need to get someone who can bunker the oil in a mobile tank while the tank is being moved. They will then put the oil back into the tank at the new location.
This would cost around €100. Ask your oil company for a referral, they should know someone reliable who offers this service.You would have to co-ordinate your plumber to be there at the same time so that the tank can be moved and refilled the same day.
How old is the tank? there have been issues with some oil tanks splitting along seams. Also depending on the age, there would be some sludgy deposit in the base of the tank and if it's an old tank i would nearly be inclined to buy a new one. A new tank would be €200/€300 depending on size.
If you're planning on filling the tank, oil is so expensive at the moment it might be better to wait until the price drops a little (this sometimes happens in the summer months but can't be guaranteed)
Regarding oil spilling out into the graden, it can and does happen, whether its from a leak in the tank or piping being damaged. It can be extremely expensive to sort. The EPA have to be informed, the land dug out and disposed of properly, possible insurance claim. It would be a nightmare. So whoever's doing the job (s) make sure they're fully qualified and insured.
I don't know how much it would cost for the other parts of the job with the pipework etc. sorry!
let us know how you get on.