to answer a few responses
1. Of course I feel partly to blame. I have never been in debt in my life. I am currently putting every penny in to try to reducey negative equity. But to play devils advocate - I am not an organistaion that deals with loans debts and risks. The bank just wanted my money. With extornate stamp duty you were forced to buy in the commuter belt. The government just milked it while they could. All this mess was pretty avoidable. - (end devils advocate)
But because its not in my nature to do the jingle mail, that why I have asked.
2. Deb.If i didnt pay 2,000 *12 months * 5 years= 120,000 , well inxs of 100,000. This is how I could save this money. I have a family home in the UK I could live in rent free. But in the same time I would have reduced my mortgage by only 30,000 (still 20K neg equity). Do you think house prices will be 10% up on what they are today in 5 years. Its anyones guess. But it means I pay 120,000 euros to end up net zero. (actually still in debt when inflation is included). You are right about the big deposit. after a year i reckon i could save approx 35K without paying a mortgage or rent and a better job. moving into an nice apartment in UK of 200K leaves only 1000/month mortgage - currently i pay 2.5K/ month which is every penny i have spare.
3. Roro - No the duplex was 390 out near Naas. Means 30 year mortgage of 355 now over 2K per month + mgt fees. Managed to nail the curve right at the tip. basically 1.5 hours each way from door to work. Has got a bit better with red cow, but still not pleasent. But cant extend as im 35 and 30 years is longest mortgage I can get. And an extra 5 years deosnt reduce payments by much. But in about 1 year will be a good time to buy in UK. 30% lower than 18 months ago.
4. The rentral market is real bad out there, last year 2 places in the surrounding, now 13 as all the investors look to get some money back. Realistically I could get 600 net per month (taking fees out) undecutting the market by 20%. Actally that reduces to 400 when you then take off the govt subsidy as I wont live there so dont get the rebate. So I'll still be paying 1600 and now I dont live in the house. Which honestly doesnt really make that much financial sense.
5. JohnJ - again playing devils advocate. I made a decision, but so did they. They gave a securitised loan, basically trying to make as much money as possible. They had no problems taking my money gambling on the fact i could repay a 6x multiplier they were only too happy to give. If they lose then they have to live with their decisions and stand up to their consequences like the big boys and girls they are.
Contracts are 2 ways. They lend me money saying if i cant repay they take the house based on their informed valuation. (this appiles if there is positive or negative equity on the house). A few months ago they upped my mortgage repayments because of the credit crunch. So without an increase in base rate they take more of my money because they want more money. Very simple. Someone makes a bad deal in US, I pay 30 quid extra a month. When do they live with their consequences. Never it seems. We do. (Apologies for the mini rant)
I appreciate that I have a good job, but my quality of life is pretty non existent (working 7-7 every day.) and I am lucky in that respect. But it does feel like a noose. I cant get work away or abroad and further my career as I cant afford to pay for the house here (see earlier point re renting). I appreciate I made a mistake buying a house, but then the advice of the bank was very much pesuading me to buy saying if i didnt buy now I wouldnt be able to afford it in future. It seems kinda rich considering my pension fund has dropped and I dont expect them to stump up the loss. They sold me the mortgage based on an asset they valued (and charged me for the privilege) as a security and yet Im meant to pay the difference.
I think the next step is to see the bank manager like room305 suggests
But it seems that the main issue is the bank trying to chase me for the money and credit rating. But reading between lines, lots of foreigners moving home, 1 in 8 homes in dublin unoccupied, rents reducing, houses not being completed as developers just abondain builds, think its a while away before the supply/demand curve moves and prices go up. stamp duty still makes it impossible for others to upgrade. at what point do you cut your losses
Any other advice real appreciated. i still dont know the exact legal position i would be in if i 'jingle mail'. what powers do they have. how hard is it to reclaim the money. how long does it last? What about jurisdiction. does anyone have experience?