As far as I recall, Ireland has been officially "metric" since early 2005, which to my mind would mean you probably have no comeback. If the labelling had been in feet and inches then perhaps you would. That said, I have usually found shops selling plants to be accommodating so they may happily swap plants for you, you've nothing to lose by asking.
Is there perhaps a neighbour who would replant for you? Perhaps you might have somewhere else to put the smaller unwanted plant, and in case it's any use to you, Lidl's specials today include large fruit plants for 5.99 - I don't know how high they will grow though! I have nothing to do with Lidl, just happened to notice their specials for today.