I know it sounds patethic,but I am so embarrased about being unemployed(5mnths) now,it kills me my neighbours potentially knowing I am no longer working, so to be honest I dont tell them that I am,simply saying that I am getting by with no detail given. The fact is sooner or later they will find out when one of them sees me in the local PO collecting my payments,its just a personal thing I am in Kells ,can I go to a PO in Navan for instance to collect it where I know no-one? As I said I know it sounds pathethic but there it is.