daisydotty
Registered User
- Messages
- 7
Have been to a solicitor briefly about the separation but didn't go into details about house
He's refusing to meet with me and just keeps saying he's living there.
Yes. Contact the suppliers immediately and get your name off the bills. No need to disconnect him. They will disconnect him if he does not pay.the gas and electricity are in my name. I was going to have these disconnected.
anyway should I advise the bank of the current situation?.
He is still in the house and I have stopped paying in my half of the mortgage. It kills me to do it but ive no option.
I think you will have to let this one run its course. There's no way to speed things up. If he hasn't left the house by now, he won't without a fight. In my experience, men have to do things at their own pace. I would let him keep paying the mortgage as he says he will. We know realistically that if he is a drinker, it's just a matter of time before you get a letter from the bank advising of arrears.
Keep saving your money while he is paying this. At least when the letter arrives, which it will, it will put pressure on him to move out - leaving you to rent the property. If his life moves along in the way it is expected to, you will have a different problem in a couple of years. You will have to find a way to buy him out.
Unfortunately, you will have to let this one move forward at it's own pace. But be prepared financially for the bail-out when the time comes. And inform your bank of your current address, instructing them to write to you directly at that address so you will be fully informed as soon as something is happening about the mortgage.
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?