rogeroleary
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Thanks MOB, I suspect that option one will be the way to go because the character in question could never be imagined cutting grass or other such errands. He is extremely manipulative and I would suspect the very mention of cutting the grass would immediately lead to feigning heart attacks etc.
I am a member of the extended family (very extended member) and I could see a situation whereby I could end up being the one to arrange his eviction following his weekend away- however you did mention the possibility of using a solicitor, could you please advise how a solicitor might be involved? Is this by way of issuing notice?
A concern of the family is that there are 4 siblings of which this character is one. The parents have stated on several occasions that their estate would be divided equally 4 ways. The other members of the family are getting concerned that now this character has established roots in the house (albeit reluctantly on behalf of the parents) and the fact that he has now managed to get himself declared as an official "carer"", is there anyway he could claim that he should inherit the house of have a larger claim on the estate because he "cared" for the parents?
Roger
Can you motivate other members of the 'extended family' to stand by and do likewise?
Have the parents specifically said that they do not want him living in their house any more or are the extended family "assuming" they don't want him there? They may be grumbling but they may not want to turf him out (which, btw, I reckon they probably should do).
I know a couple who are very elderly but had been living very contentedly until about 3 years ago. Then one of their children aged about 50 had a very nasty split with his wife and asked the parents if he could move in for a few months.
Now 3 years later he drives them mad, dominating the TV for example, drinking through the night and basically living for free off them (pay nothing towards the house bills). Recently, quite amazingly, he has received free travel, free medical card and a "carers" allowance even though the parents (and I have heard this personally) have told him they don't want him in the house.
When the other members of the family raise this point with him he keeps saying the parents are not capable of living on their own and they need someone to "keep an eye on them". Stress levels in the house are very high, this guys is extremely manipulative and to an outsider he gives the impression he is a hero when in fact he is bleeding them financially and emotionally.
Question is, how do they force him out? Do they need to give him notice? Do they need to engage a solicitor? Any advice would be much appreciated.
Roger
Surely this is really a matter for the immediate family? Especially when...I am a member of the extended family (very extended member)
I don't understand why you are getting involved.A concern of the family is that there are 4 siblings of which this character is one. The parents have stated on several occasions that their estate would be divided equally 4 ways. The other members of the family are getting concerned that now this character has established roots in the house (albeit reluctantly on behalf of the parents) and the fact that he has now managed to get himself declared as an official "carer"", is there anyway he could claim that he should inherit the house of have a larger claim on the estate because he "cared" for the parents?
any chance he will harass his parents if they pack his bags and lock him out?
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