I spent nearly a month in hospital myself recovering from a road accident in a bed opposite a patient who was involved in a head on collision with a truck.
He had been driving a Commer Van (no frontal protection) and couldn't walk so I can appreciate only too well the extent of injuries that can arise.
In his case he had pins through his legs for eight months with another four months and two operations still to go.
While my bedridden friend was suffering terribly and had to stay permanently in hospital, he was set to be a wealthy man due to the payout from the accident claim.
Another friend of mine was involved in a motorcycle accident and received a significant payout - like the first friend he was young, free and single at the time but recovered well.
Therefore given the severity of your injuries I am surprised that you are in financial difficulty, given your status as a homemaker and a mother and your significant injuries.
I was wondering had you pursued the driver of the vehicle for compensation and how that had turned out for you certainly sound deserving of compensation.
Alternatively, if he was uninsured, had you sought compensation from the fund set up by SIMI to cover such a situation.
Its none of my business, but its a route you could consider exploring given your situation if you haven't already.
ONQ.