thanks for the replies. It mustnt be the done thing, as only the two of ye replied!!!
Thats an interesting point Hi52 !
A friend of mine recently had his contract signed and deposit paid. The builder didnt sign it, just hung onto it. Builder finished the house, tore up the contract and put it back on the market for more cash. Luckily we are not buying from the same builder.
Once we've signed, the contract becomes binding on us, and the builder can hang onto the damn thing until he feels like signing. I want a clause which will have it lapse if the builder doesnt sign within a month or so. If he really wants the sale that should be a problem - if he is playing to see how things go, I'll know in a month rather than waiting a year.
you got a nice incentive there bigchicken!!