Are you talking about a Heatpump Technical Assessor as part of applying for the SEAI Heatpump grant, or a more general assessor of some sort? The heatpump technical assessor’s job is to tell you the upgrades you’re going to need to do to qualify for the SEAI Heatpump grant and to give you a recommended heatpump size, they’re not going to pressure you into a heatpump but they’re also not going to be discussing gas boilers.
What BER are you aiming for after all the works are done, that might give a sense of whether a heatpump is likely to be expensive to run or not.
FWIW we retrofitted an A2W heatpump into our now A2 house and I could not recommend it highly enough. Putting the running costs aside for a minute, the constant low temperature is a vastly superior way of heating a home IMHO. No creaking pipes as they heat up to 70 degrees then cool, no hot radiators around kids, no noisy boiler, one less source of fire in your home, no air pollution in your garden and the house is just one warm temperature at all times without the swings you get even with a smart controlled boiler.