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koons
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hi, i have recently split with my ex of 5 years where we have a 2 and a half year old child. we were not married. my question is about maintenance. i have no problem paying it but this is my story. when we split my ex is in college studing law. so she doesn't have a full time job. she works as a sec. for a solicitors firm. when we split she was in hugh debt and asked for help. we came to agreement that i would give her 4 months up front for maintenance payment but stated that this money was for my daughter and not for her. anyways she also owed me alot of money 2. 6000 to be exact as i bought her her car. now upon doing this for her i asked her to wright it out exactly what i gave her and how much she owed me. she wrote down in the letter that is hand written that i have paid maintenance till jan 2007 and that she owes me X amout of money so to pay that off i wouldn't have to pay till jan 2009. this is in writting and signed by her. not for some reason she is hearing untrue rumors about stuff that i apperntly said about her and saying she is taking me to court now to pay her money for maintenance again. she is willing to let it go till jan this year but insists that i pay 60 a week from then on even though i have a letter stating that she waved this till 2009. i offered an altewrnitive that i will purchace everything my daughter needs for the week and drop it off when ever i drop my daughter of but she says it not good enough and states thatshe going to take me court because i refuse to pay. what a my rights he exactly, i don't mind if i get my money back and pay maintenance again. can i use the letter she wrote out and counter sue her for my money back? or is it that shes going to win because she has all the rights and i don't? help is needed on this badly and quickly as i do not want to go down this road as its over my daughters life and not just some materialistic thing. if i can put a stop to her demands it will stop the terrible life that is being set out for my daughter. anybody with legal advce please advise.