Yes, I know it's unusual but I have and this is a genuine series of questions that arise from unexpectedly falling in love with a younger woman - well, she is 68.
However, the questions that arise include the following:
* What should we do with the extra money from the sale of the two houses, especially if we downsize? We are talking about 300,000 euro or so.
* My children are naturally worried about SKI - spending the kids' inheritance - so how do I assure them they will be looked after my.....?
* Would it simplify things if we got married? Serious question!
Connemara
* My children are naturally worried about SKI - spending the kids' inheritance - so how do I assure them they will be looked after my.....?
If the bank & hotel of mum and dad closed down for good in Ireland House prices would be a lot lower there would be less defaulting on mortgages also,You don’t owe anyone an inheritance! You’re kids are old enough to look after themselves by now, so go live your own life the way you want it. My kids are nearing the end of college and they both understand that the bank & hotel of mum and dad are shortly closing down.
I'm increasingly coming around to the idea that many people find major issues in their lives just too BIG, too complicated etc.,etc so instead of actually thinking- do you know what, this is what I want to happen if/when we split, separate, marry, lose capacity, go into a Nursing Home and on and on.
And instead, close their eyes and hope it will get sorted out by The Man- whoever that is.
Yes, I know it's unusual but I have and this is a genuine series of questions that arise from unexpectedly falling in love with a younger woman - well, she is 68. Both of us are widowed, my new love has no children while I have four.
We want to live together and are willing to sell both our houses to purchase a new one, jointly owned.
However, the questions that arise include the following:
* What should we do with the extra money from the sale of the two houses, especially if we downsize? We are talking about 300,000 euro or so.
* How do we safeguard our separate assets if we don't get married?
* What provision should we make for the inevitable decline into old age with all its consequences - we're not there yet!
* My children are naturally worried about SKI - spending the kids' inheritance - so how do I assure them they will be looked after my.....?
* Would it simplify things if we got married? Serious question!
Any suggestions/advice/congratulations etc. welcome
Connemara
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