Mothergoose
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I have a holiday home that I will retire to in about 3 years time. The neighbours, both professionals, have always been extremely difficult. They let their children run into my garden, trample on my plants, break windows, not once, but several times. I asked them numerous times to get their children to stop, but they didn't.
When I started spending more time there, they seemed to get annoyed. I think they never thought I would actually be moving there and that they would have the run of both my back and front garden for the longer term. The male of the couple became threatening and abusive - accosting me when I was going to the bin at the end of the drive - saying no one liked me and they wanted me out of the estate. I don't know anyone at all in the estate, bar them as they are attached to my house. I had to get a solicitor involved, who thought it was bizarre for a member of the professions to behave like this - the solicitor thought my neighbour - the male of the couple was 'unhinged.' Eventually I had to get CCTV in for them to stop. I put up hedging in my front garden.
Now the fence in the rear of the house is decaying - the wooden posts have rotted in the concrete posts that they were in. As I know the neighbours are very tight with money, I offered, through the guy who is doing the fencing to pay for the entire fence - 3.2k. He showed them the photos etc. They refused, saying they had supported the fence from their side, that they wouldn't pay for it, and even if I paid for it they didn't want it. Unfortunately, the posts can't be similarly supported on my side. I don't want the fence to blow down this winter, and feel nervous that they could start coming into my garden again, and that if one of their children slipped in my garden they could try a case. The guy who was doing the fencing said that I could put in a new fence, but would lose 8 inches of my garden - I don't mind doing this, but he then made the point that they could remove the old fence and say the new line of the garden was at my new fence - so there would be a new demarcation line on the map for my property which wouldn't be accurate.
Just wondering what the law is in relation to fencing. They are not going to see reason. I don't want to feel nervous in my garden, or worry about what they might do when I am not there. Do I get a solicitor involved and take it to Court requesting that I be permitted to change the fence - with me paying for it - along the party line - replacing it exactly - for security and privacy purposes.
Would really welcome any ideas on this.
When I started spending more time there, they seemed to get annoyed. I think they never thought I would actually be moving there and that they would have the run of both my back and front garden for the longer term. The male of the couple became threatening and abusive - accosting me when I was going to the bin at the end of the drive - saying no one liked me and they wanted me out of the estate. I don't know anyone at all in the estate, bar them as they are attached to my house. I had to get a solicitor involved, who thought it was bizarre for a member of the professions to behave like this - the solicitor thought my neighbour - the male of the couple was 'unhinged.' Eventually I had to get CCTV in for them to stop. I put up hedging in my front garden.
Now the fence in the rear of the house is decaying - the wooden posts have rotted in the concrete posts that they were in. As I know the neighbours are very tight with money, I offered, through the guy who is doing the fencing to pay for the entire fence - 3.2k. He showed them the photos etc. They refused, saying they had supported the fence from their side, that they wouldn't pay for it, and even if I paid for it they didn't want it. Unfortunately, the posts can't be similarly supported on my side. I don't want the fence to blow down this winter, and feel nervous that they could start coming into my garden again, and that if one of their children slipped in my garden they could try a case. The guy who was doing the fencing said that I could put in a new fence, but would lose 8 inches of my garden - I don't mind doing this, but he then made the point that they could remove the old fence and say the new line of the garden was at my new fence - so there would be a new demarcation line on the map for my property which wouldn't be accurate.
Just wondering what the law is in relation to fencing. They are not going to see reason. I don't want to feel nervous in my garden, or worry about what they might do when I am not there. Do I get a solicitor involved and take it to Court requesting that I be permitted to change the fence - with me paying for it - along the party line - replacing it exactly - for security and privacy purposes.
Would really welcome any ideas on this.